Comments on: 12. Day 1: Feelings: Black Hole Or Morning Star?

By: Eva Lisle

Eva Lisle — Tue, 03 Mar 2015 00:20:54 +0000

In reply to Stacey Ronczy. Thanks Sistah! It is nice to know you have my back. I feel like that line from the old Bette Davis movie "Hang on! I think it's going to be a bumpy night!" Thanks for sharing, it makes the world of difference to both of us:) xoxo

By: Eva Lisle

Eva Lisle — Tue, 03 Mar 2015 00:18:39 +0000

In reply to Jeanne Goulding. Dear One, of that you can be most certain; you are not alone. None of us are. We have the most Holy Loving Presence within us all of the time. We need but pause, breathe and ask again to remember. xoxoxo

By: Stacey Ronczy

Stacey Ronczy — Sun, 01 Mar 2015 17:56:23 +0000

Feelings. I hate them. They make me feel. I fight with this every day. My parents did not encourage the feeling or the expression of same. Crying is weak. Don’t let people see your struggles or sadness. Buck up.

What a crock.

Feelings, as I’ve come to find out, are not on a dimmer switch. You can’t feel some and not others. You either feel or you don’t.

Although it is sometimes embarrassing, I’m working on letting others see my grief or my struggle. Not everyone, as that makes me feel too vulnerable, but those I trust not to use it as a weapon against me.

Extending love to feelings is not for sissies. Open the bottle. Be brave. We will be here for you.

xoxo

By: Jeanne Goulding

Jeanne Goulding — Sun, 01 Mar 2015 15:03:07 +0000

It’s a relief and kind of comforting that you don’t get it “right” all the time. It gives hope for the rest of us. I get some good ideas and some reassurance from your blog but also the knowledge that I am not alone. Thank you.